Trying to stay patient- part 4

[Train]

I won't give a "yay" or "nay" on an e-mail. HOWEVER, if you plan to send one, post it here first, won't you?

The vets here have been giving you INCREDIBLE advice all along. And now you, yourself, see how it's easier for *us* to see things clearly, looking in from the outside.

So, yeah, grow that backbone, bro. But heed the advice given here about how to tactfully do it. Deal??