Here's the basics of my sitch. ILYBNILWY in March, EA/PA discovered in June, affair ended and started counseling right at discovery, husband still wanting to leave but says he stays out of guilt and because of the kids. I started my 180s in March. We had some good discussions recently that gave him some hope that things could work out and that I was making real changes and seeing my role in the bad parts of our marriage. But then a week later he says that whenever he takes a step towards me his mind fights him on it and he gets all anxious, so now he's pulling back again. Is this normal?
