Does it really matter? She never really applied any of the advice anyone gave her anyway, and instead would just argue and defend and explain her current position.
Which she supposedly wasn't happy with.
Supposedly.
My personal guess is that she ultimately decided that she'd rather have the old, uncommitted relationship with her exBF and just call it a day. He wasn't capable of more, and she was only making herself crazy trying to EXPECT more, but nor was she willing to move on and leave him.