Grabs mm by the hair and drags her into the couch!
Mm, you really sound like me, but your h also sounds like mine.
He's a coward, plain and simple. He is too cowardly to even be bothered to grow a set and walk completely or r!
Think of him in a big yellow banana suit, or better still a big yellow big bird costume. Every time you see him hum to the tune of Sesame Street.
As he truly is a muppet with cotton wool stuffing. Take the money and run, really when you start moving away you feel 10000000000000000000000000000% bettera.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
Actually they have no children and only a business.
He is keeping or she is staying in that b. they both waffle and won't do what's needed to allow her to become silent partner if she wants or working p with salary and rights. The b is slightly messy unfinished business.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
MM, You haven't been back since my last post. I really hope you didn't take it the wrong way as I wasn't trying to be mean or put you down or anything of the sort! I really thought out that post and I really hoped that it would help you see things the way they are. The way a person not in the middle of the pain fest you are going through can only see. Please post and let us know what you think. I really want you to make it MM, really I do. I have been so badly hurt by my soon to be ex W and I know how that feels. Let us know that you are alright!!!
It wasn't your post Matt. That's just how it happens around here. People will suddenly stop posting without any explanation or coming back to update. Maybe she's taking a break from the board, or we may never hear from her again.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Does it really matter? She never really applied any of the advice anyone gave her anyway, and instead would just argue and defend and explain her current position.
Which she supposedly wasn't happy with.
Supposedly.
My personal guess is that she ultimately decided that she'd rather have the old, uncommitted relationship with her exBF and just call it a day. He wasn't capable of more, and she was only making herself crazy trying to EXPECT more, but nor was she willing to move on and leave him.
Hi Starsky, I just thought it was really odd that after almost 2500 (wow) posts, that she would just stop. I really think she is stuck where she is at and is going to really get taken advantage of by her Exbf. She just couldn't grasp that he just doesn't give a dam anymore. I hope she can find the strength to get away from that jerk.
She may be posting at another forum, where she can get more sympathy for remaining stuck? I dunno . . . I do pray for her and hope she finds happiness.