Tar,

Only you can decide if a PA is a deal-breaker for you.

If it's NOT ultimately a deal-breaker (it wasn't for me), then I stand staunchly by Wonka on her advice up there. This is the *perfect* time for you to switch gears and grow a backbone with W.

A man with courage, conviction and confidence is attractive.


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014