My WAW also had violent PMS. She was on AntiDepressants for it and went cold turkey before she abandoned us. (Me D16 and S8)

I can empathize how hurtful it is to have your W flip on you, go "crazy" based on the same behavior that you had the day before.

One thing that I noticed made my W worse was that if she was guilty, or hiding something that month the PMS was considerably worse. I am assuming your W had the same pattern. It may be worth communicating that one right there, the value of honesty = sanity.

Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015