so sorry to read this. I am no expert (clearly) but would agreed with what I think the general sentiment will be, which is to 100% detach. Does this mean you file for the D? Formally separate? Maybe. She is so far gone right now. Your W is someone deep inside her but right now this other W is what you are getting.
Do you have a DB coach? Might be worth the investment.
I have a DB Coach but this conversation with W never had really happened, I was to wrapped up in my issues to have this conversation. The folks on the thread kind of held my hand to have it...
I will discuss this with my coach the next time we speak.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
