train, I just wanted to say I just re read all your threads and you are amazing, some of your story seems so similar to mine and I'm trying to see how you got to where you and your h are now. my h seems so entrenched with the ow, that I can't see sometimes that it will ever end, but then I see how your sitch changed so dramatically so quickly, perhaps if you have time could you have a look at my sitch and see what think. Thank you
