This is the worst bit of advice I've seen on here for a long time. You don't "bury" guilt. You learn from it. You understand your role, you take responsibility for it and you become a better person. You don't let the guilt define you, but there's always enough fault to go around.
ye21 never did understand the impact that his lying and non-support of his W did to the relationship. He changed from accepting responsibility for his part to it being his W's fault for not sticking with him. But if you don't change, why would the other person want to still be with you if the problems that drove you apart are still there?
You can't control how another person CHOOSES to live, but they have a right to live the way they want to same as you or I. The only person you can change is yourself.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
