so sorry to read this. I am no expert (clearly) but would agreed with what I think the general sentiment will be, which is to 100% detach. Does this mean you file for the D? Formally separate? Maybe. She is so far gone right now. Your W is someone deep inside her but right now this other W is what you are getting.
Do you have a DB coach? Might be worth the investment.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed
