Quick update on the past two days...as I mentioned, my W and I talked (no R talk) Sunday night, Monday morning, Monday night and Tuesday morning. All good stuff. We are going away on a vacation starting this Saturday. For the first time in two months, my W wrote me an email yesterday about yoga places near the place where we are staying. She did some research and asked if I wanted to get a week pass with her at one of them. Also, she is scheduled to be in NYC today/tonight (Wed) for work. She texted me yesterday to say she is doing a day trip and taking the 9pm flight back (she has a dinner event). I told her that she did not need to and should stay over (especially since the weather is expected to be pretty nasty). She immediately texted back "No, doing 9pm."

Then when she got back from work, instead of going upstairs to change, she hung out with me while I cooked dinner, ate dinner with S7 and me (D10 was not home yet) and talked about our family, how great things are, etc. She even said "i cannot believe that school starts for the kids in two weeks, where did the summer go" Of course, I was thinking (sarcastically) "we had no summer b/c your dad dies, my mom had a stroke and you asked me for a D in early June. For me, the summer has completely s***ed."

Finally, last night, she laid on me in bed.

Not sure what any of this means. I will continue to be who I am and see where this go. Speaking with my DB coach today.

Lots of love for everyone


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed