Yes, I understand your point and my W's view. That is why I am confused about what to do....I want to go back two nights per week for detachment and GAL reasons. But, assuming my M works out, I probably would not continue with martial arts b/c that would be time away from my W and family. I don't want to go down that path again.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed