haha Ss06, I don't really have good advice for you except I have experienced similar things with my H. When he moved out he didn't clean up or put away his stuff, he just left his dirty clothes on the floor next to the bed like he would come back later to pick them up. I was flabbergasted that he expected me to pick up after him when he just dumped me?

I think the fact that your H came over is because he is not ready to dive into his new life yet. He wants to know you are still there and feel that comfort of home.

I don't have any advice but wish you good luck and strength!
Hugs, Lisa B

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.