Try not to second guess him, epecially in front of him. Don't be negative in front of him. If you issue an invite, make it sound cheerful, like it's something where he might miss having a great time if he didn't go. The way you asked him out you almost set yourself up for disappointment. Give yourself and him time.
Don't let him see too much, if at all, how sad you are, make yourself attractive to him - that's the hardest part, when you feel like the "wronged" party. Pretend it's like you have to attract a new guy with him. Looking doleful and sounding negative wouldn't work, would it?
Livnlean
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
