I think you know the truth - you knew the truth at the beginning. I think all of us on these boards know the truth

He will never admit that he was having an emotional affair with this woman the whole time because he doesn't know what an emotional affair is.

You STBX truly believes that because he wasn't f.ing her at the time that they were not in a relationship.

You know the truth, we know the truth, she probably knows the truth but your STBX does not know the truth

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13