Stimulus-Response: The Experiment Continues

[BrightFuture]

GGG, you just posted what I’ve been afraid off in regards to my H (big sigh…)

I wasn't angry, resentful, feeling a need to blame my partners, hurt them, or anything else. I wanted to make it simple and clean, with the least amount of pain possible.

– My H said at BD time that he didn’t want to hurt me, just he was not in love with me anymore. He also was not (and is not) trying to make it difficult for me.

I felt no need to lie, to hide my activities, to be sneaky or hurtful.

– He didn’t lie, he just went away, having his own life from that point of time.

And there was never another person involved.

- And he didn’t have OW at the time, at least not known.

It was just me making a decision that long term, this particular R wasn't going to be right for me.
There were very significant and easily defined reasons, and that was that.

– This is what H told me too.

So, I guess you just confirmed what I’ve been thinking, that H is not in MLC, he is just DONE. Oh boy…