Okay well here's an update. WAW came to the concert. In a strange turn of events my lady friend's Mom had had a heart attack about 10 days ago, well she collapsed the day of the concert and lady friend had to be with her Mom. So since it was WAW who bought the tickets before the bomb, I felt it was only right to ask her. This was literally 2 hours before I had to leave to meet friends at the arena so it was either WAW or waste a ticket and go solo. So we went. I must say we had an absolutely wonderful night. We had lawn seats with our friends but WAW would want to go for a walk around the lawn area every 1/2 hour or so. She would grab my hand and we held hands, watched the sunset, and we even had a Super Moon that night as well. WAW alluded a few time to R and also the Florida move. She told me that I don't make her life easy with chuckle...insinuating that she is starting to wonder if she really wants this FL move.
We didn't really talk of any of that though except for about 3 minutes when she was talking about FL, I basically just told her that that's the deal breaker for me. That R will be impossible if she moves to FL. Just so that she is aware because she is sounding like she wishes I would wait for her to clear her head so we can R and she can come back. Other than that very brief exchange we didn't talk about any serious things. Instead we just enjoyed each other's company and the concert on a gorgeous night. It was truly a perfect night...it was the wife I remember.
So this was on Sunday night. Then last night she came over here again and slept over. We talked, kissed passionately, and then we went to sleep. This morning was also incident free, she sat with me in bed while I had my coffee. Then she had to leave for work and she gave me a passionate kiss, said I love you, and left. Then we just texted each other all day today about nothing specific, just random stuff, nothing serious. In fact we are still going back and forth texting as I write this although she is home at her parent's and I am here alone. We stayed up until 4 AM and had to get up at 6 this morning so we are both pretty beat tonight.
So all in all it was a light-hearted couple of days with WAW that were incident free. No conflicts of any kind, no real deep talks, more like dates I guess you would say. Where any of this leads? I don't know but I am prepared for "WAW" to return as well. However for these last two days, "WAW" was nowhere to be found and it was wonderful.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14