Jacket, I'm sorry you're here but I'm glad you found us (if that makes any sense!). I am new here as well and it looks like we have a similar timeline/situation. It sounds like you're doing really well with detaching and GAL -- good for you!
I am fortunate that I don't really have anyone pressuring me to move on, but I do have a few friends who are concerned that my H is "stringing me along" and that I'm not being assertive enough in terms of demanding a timeline for trying to fix our R. The way that I've explained it to them is this: When I married my H, I pledged my loyalty to him. As long as I have hope for my M, I can't give up on my H. I also don't think that I should engage in conduct that I know is going to drive him further away (i.e., making demands). If more time passes, or if circumstances change, then I may be released from my vow, but for now, I feel called to be patient and wait to see if we can repair our M.
