Raine I just want to echo what everyone here has said- you are truly amazing! I was also directed to your threads and they helped me so much. I am re-reading many now as I find I get more and more out of them as my sitch evolves.
I am so happy for you and your H!!

And this: He said, "It was always you, Raine." Oh it made my heart melt- I thought I was in a romance novel!
But I can also see that behavior in my H- asking my opinion, sharing, coming running when I had a blood pressure scare.....

Thanks for being so compassionate and willing to share where you are now and your conversations with H. It really helps us all to see the good in our aliens smile

Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown