I agree that silence is my best option. Silence doesn't bother me. I prefer it. The truth is I would rather not communicate with her until she is ready to talk. I find talking to my wife stressful and non productive. We usually just end up in circles.
Why go in circles? ^^^ Just listen to understand and validate what she is saying. We don't have to agree but we should be able to understand how they are feeling.
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14
