I did feel uncomfortable,, because she said she was.. There was tension and I did not want to deal with it. With my Parkingsons I am sleep deprived getting only 2-3 hrs sleep a night for the past few years and really did not want conflict. I am trying hard to change and normally would have lashed out years ago, so my 180 is to walk away instead of getting into it..based this on the book you recommended to her to read as I read it too and the author stated that it was much better than standing toe to toe. So was what I did wrong...really appreciate your input.
