Hi Elsa! I agree with CaliGuy, you are having a lot of positives but if you can take just a small step back that will probably help your situation. Maybe next week just practice not making the plans. (180) Let him make the plans. Tell yourself maybe you won't see him for a few weeks but that is ok.

It sounds like he wants to spend time with you, but that you are making it so that he can't "want" to spend time with you. Does that make sense? I struggle so much with this type of thing too.

Lucky you, a kiss on the lips and ILY. So many people on these boards would be very happy with that! smile

Hugs, LisaB

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.