I would be suspicious and doubtful that it has really turned around so fast, that W has ended contact with OM for good. Is it just her word that the A is over? Or do you have some way to verify this? If they work together then it is almost a certainty that this will not be the end of this. Is she military too? If she is could she be transferred to another command? My experience was that everyone usually knew who was sleeping with who but commanders did not like the attention that came with a formal complaint from a spouse and would move personnel around to avoid having to take UCMJ action.
Me37, W30, S7 Married 10yrs 05/11/04 ILYBINILWY 22/09/13 Disc. OM1 26/09/13 Disc. STD from OM2 03/02/14 Affair Confession 21/06/14
W and I share same apartment (for a few more days). W isn't pushing for D.
