I don't know what to do about this. Do I dig further? Do I ask what she means by this and what she is committed to? Do I question this not being a decision that she made only circumstances? Do I ask about ending the EA.
This is your choice, we can't choose for you. Could you be honest to yourself without been affraid? I mean, when you start dating people the person you like "chooses" you so why would you ask for somebody to choose you? Let her choose whatever she wants despite the fact that you might or not feel good about her choice. Whoever is with you has to be with you because they love themselves enough to share that love with you
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.