Within the military it is almost a given that spouses will cheat during deployments. There are exceptions but those are exceptions and not the rule. Many husbands cheat when they are deployed. I did not do so during both of my deployments but I knew many who did. Wives probably have it even worse because they have more opportunities to do so back at home with an empty house and nothing but time; their husband after all probably shares a barracks with a bunch of other guys which makes affairs more difficult but not impossible. Many soldiers divorce their spouses after return from deployment; I went to counseling and stuck it out which was a much harder path. I told you, I do not lack for patience...
Me37, W30, S7 Married 10yrs 05/11/04 ILYBINILWY 22/09/13 Disc. OM1 26/09/13 Disc. STD from OM2 03/02/14 Affair Confession 21/06/14
W and I share same apartment (for a few more days). W isn't pushing for D.
