I would like to ask her out on a date, as when we were still in the same house even after turning into a WAW she said that she wanted to be taken out and wined and dined. Is asking for a date once before I am gone for a month and a half a bad thing, or should I wait for her to initiate contact this week?
I don't want her to feel that this is a thing that hasn't changed, I want this to be obvious to her that I want to woo her and make her feel excited to be around me and know that I can do this the right way now. And since she says she is scared, this would be a 180 (i may be justifying this all wrong), but if my motives are just a date and I don't bring up relationship, just that it was good to see her this weekend and wanted to say goodbye before my long trip is this ok>??? hehe, mind is rambling I need to get out and go to the store for a bit.
Me 31 Her 30 M 5.5 T 11 0 Kids Bomb drop: 4/13, EA+PA: 12/13 Separated: 12/13, 3rd chance of counseling:7/14