First post - My WAH story

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Thanks, Caliguy. I don't feel very successful a lot of times, but I appreciate the compliment. I've been reading up on your situation, too, and though I don't have any advice, I'm wishing you good luck as well.

Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to deal with the people who are pushing you super hard to "just move on"? I've been very patient with people who are pressuring me so hard in this direction and mostly just let it roll off of me. But it's frustrating to have to keep explaining yourself. Plus, people seem to think that if I would just make the decision to move on, then I'll magically not be sad anymore or something! Also, most of these people have never been married or are still married and have never been divorced. They feel like it's been a long time, and it's time for me to go on with my life. I have to point out to them that I've only been physically separated from H for a month, and one of the weeks in July I saw him often because his sister and her two kids were in town and we both wanted his niece and nephew to be able to spend time with us together. Also, my friends and family feel like I'm spending too much time focusing on H, whereas I feel like I have been going out and doing a lot of things for myself. Gah! Sorry, just frustrated and venting.

I signed up for my 6th DB coaching session. It's this Friday. I also have IC on Thursday. Thank goodness.