First post, confused

[asat82]

So I had a wonderful weekend, I had to turn down plans with my wife and the friends on Friday because I had other plans. She invited me out again on Saturday and we had a great time. I feel like this was a very much needed thing for us and for her to see how things could go. These were are ones we have known for quite a while and we all had so much fun together and she would always sit next to me on Saturday night and she jumped on my back as we were walking down the street, and she talked bad about her roommates (who I think have been a bad influence on her) multiple times throughout the evening, and there were never any bad vibes between us, the whole night was a blast.

And since we all got drunk she offered to drive me home with them to hang out more, I agreed as I couldn't drive. She told me that she would drive me back to my car in the morning as I had somewhere to bet, but they all invited me to hang out again Sunday afternoon before they flew out. We went back to the house and got some food and hung out and put in a movie, we all passed out, and she came and grabbed me to go down and sleep with her, which I did. It was just like old times and I wish these friends and any of our old friends were around. It really felt like she was trying to try things out and test the waters. I stayed friendly but didnt pursue or follow her around. I was just friendly to her like I was everyone else.

We had a good conversation without any relationship talk on the 30 minute drive to get my car the next morning and she told me to call her later so we can all hang out before our friends left.

Well we got together on Sunday after my plans were done, and we hung out for a bit and went out to eat. She sat right next to me even though there were 5 other open chairs and no one was nearby at the time. I'll take this as a positive as well. So I am trying not to get my hopes up, but I could sense that something was a bit different. I am leaving for out of town this Saturday and out of the country next Saturday. Question is should I remain dark still? Or should I try to open up a bit too her, I don't want to seem closed off, but Im pretty sure she knows that from what I have told her previously and how I was this weekend.

I just don't know what to do now, and I feel like I don't want to just ignore the momentum that happened, but I will if it is advised. She gave me a big hug as they were leaving to go to the airport and told me that she would talk to me this week before I went on my trip. I know she has been working Monday and Tuesday, but more than anything I want to just try to start rebuilding things anew after such a positive experience. Should I initiate any contact or just leave it.

Oh and I hung out with them all because I wanted to see the friends, it was just a bonus that my wife and I had a connection during this timeframe.

~asat