Good luck with the job hunt, Ss!

I was planning to take a cooking class this fall and I've been invited to join a book club, too. Seems we're totally thinking along the same lines here.

I was doing well on Sunday and yesterday, but now I can tell I'm becoming super paranoid again. He's usually on Facebook all the time now, since he and his LF/BFF communicate through FB messenger, but now I can see he hasn't signed on for 15 hours. It makes me think he must have taken the day off and is cavorting around with her. I know that's totally irrational and I have absolutely no proof or any indication that that's the case, but that's where my mind goes.

How do I stop from spiraling down like this? There are days where I feel fabulous and like I'm making progress, and then WHAM! it hits me like this.


Me: 35, H: 37, no kids
Together since 2002, Married since 2007
IDKIILY: 2/2013
MC: 5/2013-6/2014
H stated he was REALLY done: 4/2014
I moved out 7/6/14
H filed end of 8/2014 but still hasn't served me