barely holding on - 2

[u-turn]

I look for the improvement buttons too, but don't want to feed into the "cake-eating" that I hear about. Is she cake eating or doesn't know what she is doing?

She wants me to hold her hand. she said she likes when I say good night to her. These are tiny things that I think can improve us, but I don't know if it can change us.

I don't know if it matters if she is having a MLC or not. If she is, does the level of detaching need to change?

I'm not sure I am detaching enough to make a difference. I can more easily show her that I love her, with small things like this. It is how we always acted toward each other.