Ready for some forum help

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A positive swing, and after talking with her...yes, it was positive as she felt we were finally moving toward her wants. I finally "hear her". I am confused mr. Bond. I need your help more than you think.
After talk with W last night, I felt like I had been delusional about our situation. She feels we are moving forward with this and is sad she has hurt me, but feels that she has given me plenty of time to focus on what my feelings are. She has told me that we need to start making plans to settle. Therapy was just for me I guess? She did like the first meeting and how it appeared he was helping us move forward.
I now cannot see the road for the fog mr.bond. All I know is to stay patient and focus on doing 180's and being her friend. Listening and discussing our divorce. She leaves me alone about it, but when it comes up...... We had our first REAL sit down last night, per our C instruction. She felt it was a good thing and that we should continue...just not so sure about going back to C as she feels we can make these discussion meetings ourself. Today I mentioned we would take tonight's appointment and see how we feel about a third one at the end of the session.
Thank you for your reply mr. Bond! I look forward to more guidance.