Thanks to all of the folks posting on my thread especially in the last few days I have sat down and actually compared who I am now to who I was a year ago.
I still have my concerns with several issues that have been shown me both here and by our MC, but I definitely am a better man than I was.
If I can just focus on a few more 180's such as not being passive aggressive or throwing an occasional dig I think I will be where I want to be.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965