First post - My WAH story

[Jacket]

When I saw him on Sunday, I purposely only went by for about an hour. I was cheerful and kept a PMA, then left promptly when I said I would.

When I declined his movie invitation, I simply said I already had plans. I did ask what movie he was seeing, and it's a movie I've been wanting to see. I said, "Rain check on the movie? Another day? Or are you going to go tonight anyway? If so, that's fine, too." I hope that wasn't pursuing too much.

I went and had dinner with my friend that night, and he texted while I was there, saying that he ended up going to salsa instead, but that he'd run into a friend of mine, whom he's only met once before. I told him that my friend I was having dinner with and I said hi, since we both went to grad school with her. He texted back with, "Oh, you're with Shirley?" I may be mind-reading here, but I feel like since I've been giving him less information, he's been a tiny bit more curious, or trying to see exactly what I'm up to. I also realized that he's paying attention to my check-ins on Facebook, because he'll reference them in conversation.

So my goal now is to really go dark. No more texting him randomly, or trying to get together, or posting on Facebook. I'll see if I get any sort of response. In the meantime, I have kickboxing tonight (I'm practicing teaching the class! Eek!) and dinner with my parents. I need to figure out some sort of GAL activity for tomorrow night, then I have C and dinner with a friend on Thursday. Am thinking I'll use a GC for a massage on Friday. Saturday I have tentative plans with a friend to go up to wine country for some good grubs.

Other suggestions for me with regards to H or with GAL?