that's a good call - the ex is no longer dependable and no longer a resource - at least not at this point. I had hoped that mine would remain friendly but that appears out of the question now. Oh well, it becomes easier to get over these little things since we've learned to get over the big thing smile I do feel pretty good when I accomplish something that perhaps before was something he did, gives you that boost of self esteem or something. HOpe you're doing well - we inspire each other cc, smile it's good to have support like this for sure laugh


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs