"i obviously dont want her dancing.. but i accept it because it makes her happy and that itself makes me happy. Just want to be a good husband."
What do you mean you "obviously" don't want her dancing. What's wrong with that? First the shorts now the dancing. Do you consider her a slut for dancing too?
I thought you said you wanted to learn how to be a more compassionate husband towards her. You're just going through the motions without REALLY feeling it or trying to understand. If all you're doing is the action without believing in them, then all you'll do is build resentment in yourself towards her.
Which is SO obvious when you post. In fact, you NEVER addressed my questions as to what you plan to do in terms of learning empathy. You still seem to refuse to go to C for yourself which would help tremendously. I had put my faith in you. Seems like I was wrong because all I see is the same insecure boy who doesn't want to grow up.
"I keep stressing when im at work and need to detach again. I dont usually leave the house to go and do stuff because she gets lonely and gets upset about it. So thats a bit difficult."
More excuses from you. If you actually told her that you were going to go to C to learn how to be a better H, she would practically drive you to the office herself.
Are you going to keep up the excuses or act like a man for once and get help?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
