Ok .. .sorry I just got caught up on your thread. Stop pursuing, you really need to let him pursue you, detach GAL 180 ... you have heard this right>?? You at him for dates and time, is you pursuing him and he is just accepting and declining as he sees fit, you are going to have to let him start thinking about you on his own .... make him start wondering and double guessing his actions.
I see so many positives, I dont think you blew it ... you have had good exchanges ... but he has given you a gift of telling you that you getting times and dates set is turning him off and pushing him further .. listen to him and do not pursue!!! Patience patience patience ( I struggle here too so much .. but you must do this!!)