Tried something today to see if H would do something with me alone, no family , no son.

It was something boring and something even before BD he would have probably said no to,,,but I ask him if he wanted to meet me at gorcery store, I have tons of food shopping to do and just thought I would throw that out there...

Now before BD he use to ask me to go to grocery store with him at times,,,not often and usually we ended up rushing or disagreeing with purchases,,,

not sure why I tried with this,,,,WOW. But not taking it personally,,,it could be just the place, but I thought it was something that was not like a date so I tried it..

H texted back -NO
We do have to go to school orientation and open house tonight together.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW