I know the situation stinks and it's unfair and it hurts to see your kids suffering the consequences when they've done absolutely nothing to deserve it.
Just know you have support and love here while it all gets figured out.
It really does get better. Really. :-)
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson