The new information is that I'm done. We talked over the phone for about an hour this morning. Started out rough, but smoothed out. Her biggest sticking point was wanting me to move out of the house a few days during the week so she could stay with the kids once school starts. Said my answer right now was no, but we could discuss options. She proposed we go out Fri night.
After we talked, I couldn't let it go and text her about who she was sleeping with in the bedroom (some girl) and if 'that' had ever happened with OM. I needed to know going forward. Her response- 'Do you really want to know? Why would I want to hurt you? The answer is yes. Not here.'
I know I should probably take some time, but that's always been my line in the sand. I can't imagine ever being able to overcome that. I've left a message at the attorney's office. Feeling defeated....
