Yes, you can not help him, as hard as it is ... he must take that MLC walk on his own ... in a fog without you as his compass. This is the hardest thing I have had to do, there really is no justifying what they are doing especially to people who are not willing to do what we are doing.
Detach, work on you ... you can not worry about his feelings, what he is included on, this is his path to walk for awhile, for me .. I just pray God can have that path one day veer back onto the "high"-way I am on. But if that's not in the cards, know you will be stronger and better for this .... and I know that does not take away the hurt and pain, we all go through these emotions, have our good and bad days, its just part of us all growing into the W/H our WAS would be fools to leave.
