I wish I could give some comfort. I find I am still holding on to the expectation that my H will come to his senses. It's hard to let that go of that and focus on the future without him.
I do not know how people with young children get through this. I have a lot of admiration for how you've been handling her irrational behavior. Not sure if I could've done it.
Thank you Nitty, it has not been easy and I have done/said things that I regret .. especially after reading here and the DB book ... but I can not undo the past, I can only focus on me, just wish I would have done it all sooner.