That makes sense. I hope you find I'm answering questions honestly. And I'm pretty clear that a lot of this is grounded in OLD issues from my family, abuse, and emotional neglect. How to resolve all that as a 39 yo man is a different story.

Right now, I rely on therapy, 12 Step, and meditation.


Me: 39 - W: 35
Together: 2 years, no kids
My Affair: 1.5 years
Affair ended: 4/9/14
Affair revealed: 5/19/14
Last Contact: 8/2/14