Here is an update for those still wondering whats going on in my world.

I feel that DB'ing has helped me immensely. Unfortunately it created a greater distance between my spouse & I .

She is determend to push me away as an active co-parent. We are going through the expensive, bias, legal system for me to get greater access to see my children more. Hard to believe that the woman who hates my guts gets to dictate when I see my children. She has made up unbelievable negative stories about me, that even the lawyers are questioning her creditability. My only avenue is to go to court with could cost up to 50k!

I thought the BD was the worst news one could get, not so. I can heal from losing a woman. Seeing my children suffer by not being with their father is the worst pain one could feel. They never asked for this, She chose to leave me, the children had no choice and are hurting be her choices.

I have rebuilt my life to revolve around my children and I will continue to challenge the system until I am financially drained. I have a moral obligation to influence their character development for my boys current & future happiness.

Wish me luck!


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.