If he dates, I withdraw a LOT. Not necessarily file, but only because at this point I'm not ready to do that anyway. I don't know that it necessarily needs to be discussed any further, I just wanted him to know my position because he'd said he thought we should discuss it. I don't want to discuss it. I do think it would be incredibly hurtful to the 3rd party to bring her into his situation and I would be disappointed to find that he's the sort of person who could do that to someone. In addition to how I would feel for myself.
When I said I wanted to delay the legal separation, it's because the way it works in our state something dramatic would happen with the house and I don't want to be in that position at this time. I'm not ready to deal with the house, especially at the beginning of a new school year.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
