She probably has some insight into your nature but I think the bottom line is this:

She was testing me to see if I changed, and came to the realization that I haven't.

My takeaway would be, "Am I living the life I want to live? If not, either I change or I don't. The choice is mine."

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss