You sound like you're spinning with the low feelings and with the texting W and the worries about D14, etc...
When I spin, it's better to do NOTHING than act on impulse and regret it later. Get yourself centered.
Maybe start with your attorney before you bring ANYTHING up with D14. She is already under enormous pressure. Ask your L the questions you've raised above. What are D14's rights in all of this? That's how I've handled this...start with the L.
And, get back into your lane. W isn't there anymore. She just isn't.
Much love,
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
