Last night I went out after work, over to a buddy's place and had two beers and talked. Came home a little after 8pm right before my S7 went to bed. My W and I talked for a bit after that, all pleasant and nice stuff. This morning we woke up and I did my normal thing of getting her a coffee and bringing it to her. She came downstairs a bit later and sat with me on the couch. We talked about my previous obsessions with my martial art (I decided to not pursue to the Brazilian JJ place that I looked at this weekend....it is a 15 min drive from home and will mean that I won't see my kids two mornings per week, which I don't want to do). She said that the issue was never that I did my martial art, but the amount of time I spent doing it and how it made me crazy and obsessed. so I may go back two nights per week to my old place. the main issue is the class is from 8-9pm so if I want to hang at home with the kids (or the W) those nights, I have to cut things short. BUt I believe I need this for my sanity and to GAL.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed