Hi ganb8te,
it sounds like you handled this first meeting well! And it also sounds like your H is saying a lot of the same types of things as mine.

I don't really get how they are sad but still sure this is what they want.

I'll be interested to hear what the vets have to say to you. I could use some advice of this kind myself.

How do you feel? Did you feel happy to see him, sad? Did it make you upset? I know after the first meeting with my H as soon as I left I became extremely nauseous.

I hope you are doing well and feeling strong!
Hugs, Lisa


Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.