We have been separated since February and I have gotten to a good place of moving forward and finding happiness. I have realized that it was not meant to be between me and my stbx. We were not compatible. He did not treat me well. He never did care to get to know me as a person..who I am and what my interests are. He never showed me much affection and often snapped at me over such trivial things.
But the latest confession by him that he is now seeing the woman that I suspected he was having an EA with has me asking all sorts of questions. I had always wondered if he had been interested in someone else and he always swore that there was no one. Now we are separated and I am moving on..apart from him. So does it matter now if I found out what really happened in our marriage that tore our marriage apart? Is it totally irellevant now or I am wondering if it will help give me closure in finding out. We had a beautiful family and it was tore apart. Now do I need to find out why or just forget about it and keep moving forward?
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
