Today was a better than good day, I was booked out with clients all day, one after the other, kept my mind focused.
H texted general stuff throughout the day, asked how my day was going, nice easy stuff. He changed his Fb profile pic to one I'd taken of him and tagged him in ages ago, it's a great pic and I told him so, also interesting to note that his wedding ring is highly visible in the photo, and I like that he still chose to use it.
I think becoming his friend again is a great start, no expectations.
His r with ow is at this point, his business, I can't change that, and I can't give it and more of my head space, watch out for myself and our boys. I don't know if that is correct dbing, but it feels right for me today.